It’s been three years since the public scandal surrounding Ime Udoka’s workplace affair, and actress Nia Long is sharing an update on where things stand with her ex. In a candid conversation with The Cut, the star revealed that she and the NBA coach are now in a much better place, especially when it comes to co-parenting their son.
Finding Peace and Prioritizing Their Son
Nia Long, 54, emphasized the importance of healing from past trauma, especially for the sake of their children. While she generally keeps her personal life private, she addressed recent social media speculation, stating, “me and Coach are good.” She expressed her support for Udoka, adding, “I hope he wins. He deserves to win. He’s really great at what he does.”
The couple, who share son Kez, born in 2011, proved this commitment this past summer by traveling together with their child. Long described the experience as “really beautiful,” noting that their “very public journey” has now led to “peace and understanding” with “a lot of mutual respect” between them.
Moving Past the Past
Long and Udoka, 48, ended their relationship in 2022 after more than a decade together. The split followed the revelation of Udoka’s affair with a staff member while he was the head coach of the Boston Celtics, leading to his suspension and eventual departure from the team. He is now the head coach of the Houston Rockets.
While their breakup involved contentious legal battles over custody and child support, which were settled in early 2024 with Long gaining primary custody and Udoka agreeing to pay approximately $32,500 monthly, Long insists that “the past is the past.” She shared, “I’m not going to carry burdensome energy with me because that just transfers to my children and it transfers to everything else in my life.”
I’m proud of myself. I think we’re proud of each other as the parents of Kez, that we’re able to make this an annual thing and commit to these last sweet years of him being in grade school and high school before he goes off to college. — Nia Long
Looking ahead, Long is focused on cherishing the remaining years of their son’s childhood. She expressed pride in their ability to make co-parenting a priority, ensuring they will both be there to support Kez as he navigates through high school and eventually heads to college. It’s a testament to their dedication to their son’s well-being above all else.
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