The heartbreaking reality of Black femicide, the intentional killing of women with a gender-related motive, is a crisis that actor Sterling K. Brown is urging society to confront. In the wake of numerous tragic deaths of Black women at the hands of men they knew, Brown is calling for greater empathy and a deeper understanding between Black men and women.
The Devastating Statistics of Femicide
The numbers are stark and deeply concerning. According to the Violence Policy Center, a staggering 9 out of 10 Black women murdered are killed by someone they know. Furthermore, Black women are murdered by men at four times the rate of white women. Despite making up only 14% of the female population, they represent 30% of women murdered by men. These statistics underscore a pervasive issue within intimate partner violence.
This grim reality is a backdrop to the film adaptation of Aleesha Harris’s play, “Is God Is,” where Sterling K. Brown plays a pivotal role. The film, starring alongside Vivica A. Fox and Erika Alexander, explores themes of revenge and the complexities of relationships, themes that resonate deeply with the current social climate.
A Call for Concert, Not Competition
In a candid conversation with theGrio, Brown reflected on the growing Black femicide crisis. He shared a powerful message for Black men, emphasizing the need for unity and partnership. “There is a way in which we can be in concert with one another and not in competition,” Brown stated.
He elaborated on how historical divisions, stemming from slavery, have been perpetuated by design to create conflict within the Black community. “Conflict has been created amongst us by design, because if we are beating up on each other and we’re in conflict with each other, then it keeps us from focusing on anything above and beyond us,” he explained. Brown encouraged men to recognize that women desire partnership and that walking side-by-side is mutually beneficial, urging them to resist the manufactured frustrations that keep the community divided.
Empathy as the Starting Point
Brown also touched upon the complexities of female financial independence and self-protection, acknowledging the underlying tension and fear that can exist in relationships. He stressed the importance of sympathy and empathy for one another. “If you try to put yourself in the other person’s shoes for a minimum amount of time, you’d be like, ‘Oh, I understand how this could be a scary situation for that woman to enter into. [Or] I can understand how this man might feel emasculated by this particular thing.’”
The actor hopes that his role in “Is God Is” will spark conversations and encourage audiences to consider different perspectives. “I feel like the movie, hopefully, is an opportunity to enter into a conversation, to say, like, you know what? I’ve never considered things from your perspective, and I think that’s the beginning,” he said. Brown concluded by expressing his love for the community and his desire to see Black men and women succeed together.
Sterling K. Brown’s message is powerful. How can we foster more empathy and understanding between Black men and women? Share your thoughts and ideas in the comments below!