Bevy Smith’s ‘Dining With Bevy’ Fosters Vision & Sisterhood

Harlem’s iconic Red Rooster was buzzing with an atmosphere of fellowship and purpose on October 25th, as Bevy Smith hosted her annual ‘Dining With Bevy: Life With Vision’ brunch. This year’s event brought together 44 guests, both men and women, for an afternoon dedicated to power, purpose, and sisterhood.

A Workshop for the Soul

Bevy Smith kicked off the event by framing it not just as a meal, but as a workshop. ‘Yes, we’re going to have a beautiful three-course meal, yes, we’re going to laugh, yes, we’re going to hear from the fabulous Tai Beauchamp, but ultimately we’re in the room to do the work for ourselves, on ourselves,’ she explained. This set the tone for an afternoon focused on introspection and intentional growth.

Guests were treated to an elegant three-course Southern-inspired meal, featuring dishes like hot honey fried chicken and buttery catfish. Throughout the meal, Smith guided attendees through the foundational principles of her ‘Life With Vision’ blueprint, a framework that helped her transition from a Senior Director role in fashion to pursuing her dreams as a TV personality, author, and actress.

Reflecting on Perception and Purpose

Smith shared the three pivotal questions that transformed her life: ‘Who am I at my core? How am I being perceived? How would I like to be perceived?’ She candidly discussed how her past ‘tough’ exterior, once described as ‘bitchy Bevy,’ hindered authentic connections and led to high staff turnover. This realization became a turning point, emphasizing the importance of self-awareness for personal and professional growth.

Tai Beauchamp’s Journey of Resilience

The highlight of the afternoon was an inspiring fireside chat with Tai Beauchamp, a renowned wellness advocate and entrepreneur. Celebrating two decades in media, Beauchamp shared her journey, from her early days at ‘O, The Oprah Magazine’ to becoming the first African American beauty and fitness director at ‘Seventeen’ magazine. She spoke about overcoming ‘macro aggressions’ and trusting her purpose, even when things weren’t figured out.

Beauchamp stressed the importance of rest, not as a reward, but as a necessity for a balanced life. She shared how she intentionally schedules time for prayer, workouts, and rest, encouraging attendees to honor their limits and set boundaries. Her message resonated deeply: ‘I want to do a lot less. I want to be more impactful.’

Intention, Accountability, and Growth

The afternoon concluded with Smith inviting guests to write heartfelt letters to themselves, filled with encouragement, accountability, and intentions. These letters will be mailed back in three months, serving as a powerful reminder to stay committed to their paths. ‘Dining With Bevy: Life With Vision’ proved to be a truly soul-recharging experience, celebrating vision, growth, and the power of community.