Finding the right professional attire can be a challenge, especially for plus-size individuals navigating an industry that often overlooks their needs. But sometimes, the perfect outfit isn’t just about looking good; it’s about feeling powerful and authentic. For one author, a lavender power suit became exactly that – a confidence booster for a high-stakes professional event.
The Plus-Size Fashion Hurdle
The author recently faced the daunting task of selecting an outfit to moderate a panel for the PR Girl Manifesto’s ‘Behind The Byline’ series. As a size 3X, the search for professional clothing often feels like a ‘humiliation ritual.’ The current market, influenced by #thinspiration trends, frequently offers ill-fitting and outdated options, making it difficult to find pieces that feel both professional and stylish.
The fear of appearing unprofessional or wearing something unflattering was real. The author wanted an outfit that conveyed competence and chicness, reflecting her personal taste and professional aspirations, especially when meeting industry peers and potential collaborators. This meant ditching the idea of a ‘tacky tent’ and finding something truly authentic.
The Power of Pastel
The solution came from within her own closet: a lavender suit from Ulla Popken. Inspired by influencer Sarah Chiwaya, the author had previously purchased the pants and a matching coat, later acquiring the jacket separately. While the suit had been relegated to the back of her closet, its soft pastel shade whispered ‘boss’ to her, offering a perfect antidote to her panel-hosting nerves.
This choice was deliberate. While typically avoiding light colors for public speaking, the suit was practical – easy to clean and comfortable to move in. She paired it with a sheer, multi-colored water lily turtleneck found in storage, ensuring a covered yet stylish look. Square-toed boots from Eloquii added a touch of height, and the author envisioned her professional boho braids complementing the suit’s lapels.
Authenticity and a Flawless Finish
Wearing an outfit she loved, rather than something hastily purchased, allowed the author to stay present during the panel discussion. She didn’t have to fidget or adjust her clothing, enabling her to fully engage in the conversation about the evolving creative industry. To enhance her presence, she invested in a professional makeup artist, who created a daytime look using products from Danessa Myricks, Morphe, and Juvia’s Place.
The makeup, featuring a green liner picked up from the turtleneck and emerald crystal earrings, lasted all day, through lunch, a late-night class, and the commute home. Despite the suit being a sale find, the combination of the ‘beat face’ and the feminine color palette made the author feel more luxurious and confident than she had in a long time. It was a powerful reminder that authenticity, comfort, and a touch of personal style can truly transform a professional experience.
What’s your go-to outfit for boosting confidence in professional settings? Share your style secrets in the comments below!