Tag: Tarana Burke

  • Tarana Burke Renews Vows in Lagos, Nigeria

    Love is a journey, and for Me Too movement founder Tarana Burke and her husband, Joe, their journey has spanned over three decades. After years of navigating life’s twists and turns, including a pandemic-induced postponement of their original wedding plans, the couple recently celebrated their enduring love with a beautiful vow renewal ceremony in Lagos, Nigeria, in December 2025.

    A Love Story Decades in the Making

    Burke and Joe’s connection began in 1990 when they were just teenagers living in the same New York City neighborhood. What started with a chance encounter on a basketball court blossomed into a deep connection, though life’s paths eventually led them in separate directions. They experienced college, separate relationships, parenthood, career moves, and personal losses, yet their bond remained.

    More than 35 years after they first met, Burke says the qualities that initially attracted her to Joe are still present. “He is still as spontaneous and playful as he was 36 years ago,” she shared exclusively with MadameNoire. “At any moment he will break out and grab me up for a kiss like we are kids in the park.” This playfulness, she notes, continues to be a grounding force in their relationship.

    Finding Their Way Back and Embracing Vulnerability

    After living separate lives for years, Burke and Joe reconnected in 2014. This reunion brought a sense of “peace and relief,” as Burke knew he was the one. They approached their renewed relationship with intention and maturity, eventually becoming engaged. Burke credits their earlier attempt at a long-distance relationship with teaching them the importance of prioritizing themselves and allowing space for individual growth.

    A particularly poignant moment in their journey occurred when Burke encountered Joe in Harlem while arranging her late father’s funeral. In a time of deep grief and vulnerability, Joe quietly stepped in to support her, a gesture that left a lasting impression. “My life can be tumultuous and having a soft place to land is invaluable,” Burke reflected. “Having a partner who has known me for so long keeps me grounded.”

    A Surprise Celebration in Lagos

    The idea for the vow renewal began subtly. Burke was planning a surprise trip to Lagos, Nigeria, for Joe’s birthday in December—a month already significant for their anniversary, reunion anniversary, and Joe’s birthday. As the plans evolved, the idea of renewing their vows emerged, eventually expanding into a celebration involving their children and family.

    Choosing Lagos held deep personal meaning, as both Burke and Joe’s DNA tests revealed strong Nigerian ancestry. “It meant so much to both of us to be in Nigeria for our vow renewal,” Burke shared. “We both traced our DNA roots to the country… We wanted to both honor our ancestry and do something really special and unique to honor our marriage.”

    The ceremony itself was a vibrant celebration, filled with joy and cultural elements, including beautifully crafted wedding fans that became a cherished keepsake for Burke. She described the experience as feeling like a homecoming, affirming and grounding. The event beautifully connected their love story not only to each other but also to their shared ancestry and legacy.

    Tarana Burke’s story is a beautiful reminder that love can evolve and endure. What message does her journey hold for you? Share your thoughts in the comments below!

  • Tarana Burke Launches ‘Me Too’ Disruptor Council

    Eight years after the #MeToo hashtag ignited a global movement, founder Tarana Burke is ushering in a new era with the inaugural Disruptor Council. This powerful collective of artists, activists, and leaders is dedicated to advancing the mission of ending sexual and gender-based violence.

    A New Era of Collective Action

    Burke explained the council’s purpose: “What we’re trying to do with this Disruptors Council is have ambassadors who can bring that message to the world and say, ‘Listen, we’ve been talking about… sexual and gender based violence for years. What we know is that there are solutions. We know we don’t have to live in a world where this exists. This is solvable, and we are some of the people on the front lines committed to making sure that we find solutions.’”

    The council boasts an impressive lineup of changemakers, including Viola Davis, Gabrielle Union, and Congresswoman Ayanna Pressley. Their collective action underscores the understanding that ending sexual violence requires confronting systemic issues, policies, and cultural norms that perpetuate it. With statistics revealing that 1 in 3 women experience gendered violence, and high-profile cases continuing to surface, Burke emphasizes that this is a critical moment to address the pervasive nature of this crisis.

    Movements Are Always in Motion

    Burke stresses that the “Me Too” movement, much like “Black Lives Matter,” remains active and vital. She clarifies that movements are inherently dynamic and constantly evolving. “Injustices don’t come to a dead halt,” she explained, addressing the misconception that the movement has ended simply because public attention fluctuates. “The evidence of a movement is that you hear about it in the news, that you see people paying attention to it, that you see people even being attempted to be brought to justice.” Bringing figures like Harvey Weinstein and Sean Combs to court, she notes, is a direct result of the movement’s momentum.

    Beyond accountability, Burke emphasizes the movement’s commitment to supporting survivors’ healing processes. “We have to listen to every survivor. They deserve investigation. Let us [survivors] tell you what we need and what we want,” she urged. This includes providing resources and community support, recognizing that healing often requires navigating spaces where harm occurred.

    Diversity and Inclusion at the Core

    The Disruptor Council was intentionally curated to reflect the diversity of survivors’ experiences across various industries and demographics. Council members like Michelle Buteau, Bevvy Smith, Breanna Stewart, Cliff Albright, Jessie Woo, Kier Gaines, Marley Dias, Samantha Barry, Padma Lakshmi, and Ai-jen Poo leverage their unique platforms to advocate through content, partnerships, and events. Burke highlighted the disproportionate underrepresentation of Black women, Indigenous women, and trans women in the conversation surrounding sexual violence, underscoring the need for diverse voices.

    The council members themselves shared their commitment. Gabrielle Union stated, “I disrupt by challenging the status quo in ways that create opportunity, understanding, and progress for everyone.” Viola Davis added, “I raise my hand as a survivor and the daughter of a survivor… to destroy the stigma, the shame and reclaim our worth. I’m proud to be a disruptor.” Burke concluded that the diverse membership sends a powerful message: even those at the height of their careers recognize that power alone doesn’t guarantee safety, necessitating a collective effort to ensure everyone’s well-being.

    How can we collectively work towards ending sexual and gender-based violence? Share your thoughts and ideas in the comments below!