Have you ever felt like you’re pouring your heart and soul into everything – love, your career, even your country – only to feel that love draining away? Tiffany D. Cross, former host of MSNBC’s “The Cross Connection,” is sharing her journey through those tough times in her powerful new book, “Love, Me: A Letter to Black Women in a Toxic Country, Career, and Relationship.” It’s a message of healing and resilience for Black women everywhere.
From Cable News Star to Personal Revelation
The past decade has been a whirlwind for Tiffany D. Cross. She rose as a prominent voice in cable news, only to have a dream job taken away. Add to that the political landscape and a painful personal breakup, and you have a recipe for immense emotional strain. Cross felt that love was “emptying” from her and knew she had to find a way to refill her own cup.
Her new book chronicles these highs and lows, offering a raw and honest look at her experiences. She shared in a recent chat with her former “Native Land” podcast colleagues – Angela Rye, Andrew Gillum, and Bakari Sellers – that her journey is about finding a way to “plug those holes and get that faucet turned back on for myself.”
A Voice for the Voiceless
Cross hopes “Love, Me” provides not only solace for Black women but also insight for Black men. She believes the book offers a unique perspective on the challenges Black women face today, from career underemployment to feeling targeted by political administrations. She’s not afraid to “say the quiet parts out loud,” sharing those dark thoughts that might otherwise remain unspoken.
She emphasizes that Black women are often viewed as a political commodity, asked to “save America” without acknowledging their own humanity and emotional needs. “Before you ask me to go out here and save America, I need you to realize I’m a whole human being right here with a beating and broken heart,” Cross stated. Her message is clear: healing must come first.
Healing Through Love and Loss
The book delves into the pain of losing her show, the sting of lost love, and the feeling that Black women have collectively lost ground in the country. Cross makes her hurt public, acknowledging that she doesn’t have all the answers but remains hopeful for change. She’s asking for a moment of respite, a chance for Black women to breathe and regroup.
This pause isn’t about inactivity; it’s about strategic healing and self-preservation. Cross wants to give herself and other Black women “something to believe in” during challenging times. It’s a powerful call for self-love and collective support in navigating a world that often feels overwhelming.
Have you read Tiffany D. Cross’s new book, “Love, Me”? What are your thoughts on her message to Black women? Share your experiences and insights in the comments below!